Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10"
kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very
interesting.
But first, let's go waaay back...
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so
perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at
her (and yet I couldn't look away)...
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice
and friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were
flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened
out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a
crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common
experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this
ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl
had broke their heart...
Ah, the hard to tame "10," a perfect girl that every guy
dream of but never seems to have it.
I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In
one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same
time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find
that "perfect girl" for yourself, you need to understand you
own fascination with female perfection, and understand the
reality behind extremely beautiful women.
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no
such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a
girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful
than the other girl.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns
you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only
true "10".
The world is full of 10's, you just need to have the skills
and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options
for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because
she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
She knows what you're about and sees you as shallow.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another
"level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated
much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to
treat these types of women.
As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there
are two things you need to know.
First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks
alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that
appreciates her personality.
Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that
belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their
looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so
they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are
in complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking
away their validation will make them flip out and do
anything to get it back.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total
head cases when you get involved with them.)
Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of
the elite -they realized early on that high levels of
society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to
be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their
lives.
These women are motivated to put an extra effort because
they know that they are just a little closer to a great life
than everyone else.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have
a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being
clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go
to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with
their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with
friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are
that they are single for long periods of time while
in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since
most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act
too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet
another man who is on their level.
But here's the good news. You will find these women the
easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be,
being a "male 10."
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely
notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some
women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by
you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd
responses from less attractive women - they will
occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on
your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much
differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful
women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether
on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you
are on their "level."
The woman will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me;
he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's
the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today,
instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of
course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all
kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the
option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't spend another year missing something that you could've
been enjoying right now.
Vin
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