(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my
personality when I went out.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man,
as we all know.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something
basic - like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my
best pickups occurred in there.
At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to
those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or
super-tight shirts at the club.
This got me thinking...maybe it's not how much the clothes
cost, or how flashy they are...
I guess there is something else going on.
There are two things going on. This two things must be
manage or balance.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a
woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make
her like you, you are toast.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of
getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a
way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T WANT to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it
avails much.
However, you don't want to look sloppy. You want to present
yourself in the best way you can.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your
"scene" is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color.
This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n
upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free,
and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry
about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they
ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your
shoulders.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice
haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks great
and take it all the way.
One other thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look
of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
Use your intuition with this one. I don't want to say too
much because that's a whole other topic.