The Pick Up Artist and One Night Stands
Posted by seduction | 6 Jun, 2008
One Night Stands is the topic that I want to share with you today.
Before I don't really know how to do the one night stands, and I started to understand how easy it is to apply after I have used a couple of solid pickups.
Looking back, I realize now that those initial successes were the start of a major "bad belief overhaul."
I started to think that women wants to be hookup and that they really wanted me
Even though I know that I am not that good looking like other men, I started to think that I was that too attractive and desirable to woman
The main goal, of about 75% of my students, is to sleep with as many women as possible.
The other half are looking for someone special. As I've said before, I don't think these goals are mutually exclusive.
You see, if you're looking for one special girl, you're gonna have to meet a good amount of woman so you can make the best choice.
It would be impossible to meet your someone special if you don't socialize and meet with a bunch of good women.
There's a very common phase that every good pickup artist goes through when he gets started. He begins learning new ways of thinking and behaving, and lo and behold, he starts meeting and sleeping with a LOT OF WOMEN.
Like a kid that uses all his new powers just to have all that he wants in the candy store.
There is a need of learning in order to dump out your old way and start with a new reality - that I am desirable that women can't resist to sleep with me.
You have to be really fast and have a natural sensual encounters, in order to get the success in sleeping with women though your new you.
I'm referring to a same day lays or popularly known as "ONS" One-Night Stand.
Having a one-night 'stands at-will' can seem just as out-of-reach as having a great girlfriend. So if you never had a one night stand, you might be considering about it.
But it's actually pretty easy, if you know what you are doing.
But the sad thing is, there are many men that make things too hard for themselves and never be able to get the first sexual experience that will make them feel like "natural."
If you're going though with this newsletter, then you really want to MASTER THE GAME aside from getting BETTER with woman.
Mastery comes from within - it starts with a mindset, and leads to external results, which then form NEW BELIEFS in your mind.
The newly created beliefs that you have will then be a foundation in facing the new reality in your life, and that reality is to naturally attract women without even thinking about it or without doing any fancy stuff.
There's one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.
You can get a solid number from her, but whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy on a particular night varies widely.
But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.
Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.
They want to be approached. This of course, isn't always true, but is generally the case.
I also look for women who are being loud and animated. They are subconsciously looking for attention from men.
Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you'll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.
They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.
Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.
You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple "hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.
The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you'll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.
Instead you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This is against her "rules" and will force her to keep you at a distance. You're also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.
So before that thing happen, you have to remove some of your overt sensual intention and try not to let her know that you are trying to pick her up.
Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.
Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.
You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to get a same day lay.
Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.
You don't want to invest a bunch of time with the wrong girl, or worse, to pick the RIGHT girl, and then mess it up after a lengthy interaction.
That's a HUGE waste of time.