Seduction Tips for Men

Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

You think everything is going great with a girl and she stops returning your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

You must have the courage in the way you approach.

At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")

Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting.

... I have encountered a client that has a problem of "extroversion fatigue."

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

I would take a break and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

... from TALKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

As a whole, there is a general dating fatigue. Having a discouraging results, an emotional ups and downs with regards to the hard work and effort that I make just to have a girl to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)

I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.

I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.

There are three reasons for this.

First, being socially proactive may be new to you.

I remember the first time I started weight lifting, I don't have an upper pectoral muscles - the muscle right at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.

Then I can now handle the big amounts of weight right after I have reached the tripping point in the development of my muscle. The mind is in that way too.

You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.

Thinking that meeting women requires a lot of hard work can cause a social fatigue. And that is the second reason.

Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from "fatigue."

Being overwhelmed by certain thing can cause exhaustion to your mind that can lead to some sort of discouragement and depression. It's somewhat saying "ugh, I've had enough of this too much. I'm giving up"

This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.

It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the needed things just to get a good quality of women.

The last reason why you feel socially exhausted is when you spend much mental energy and focus on stuff that isn't helpful to pick-up.

Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of men gets it wrong. Usually the women can't tell because most men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner "stuff" to their self.

But of course we can't oppose to the reality that when a guy is attracted to a girl, he is trying his best just to win her or at least know if the women likes him too.

As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends - generally it lets us know that man's role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return a woman will sleep with you.

That's Silly!

I get so mad when I see some commercial with a guy bumbling around trying to impress some cute girl, and looking like a fool while she giggles like she's better than him because she's a girl.

Ok enough ranting...  the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating lives.

But everything will absolutely change if the guy will only takes time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction.

You need to OPTIMIZE YOUR MIND and body to function at the highest level when interacting with women, because that's what's truly attractive...

A MAN AT HIS BEST.