A Relationship or A One-Night Stand
Posted by seduction | 3 Jul, 2008
I have been quite an expert on fast pick-ups. But there's one problem that I want to share with you.
You see, even though guys that can pull these off enjoy not only success with women straight out of a fantasy world and typically get women obsessed with them, with a fast pick-up comes a big problem...
SOMETIMES FAST PICK-UPS DON'T BECOME A RELATIONSHIP.
Sometimes a fast pick-up becomes a one night stand instead of converting it into a relationship.
Well, its fine for those that has that intention.
But a lot of times, you DO want to see the woman again - or possibly start a relationship with her.
Here's something I want you to know - In the past 2 years EVERY girl I have slept with has been under 4 hours.
And EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. wanted to see me again...
So why am I saying this?
I'm saying this NOT to brag. But I'm saying this so that you can realize the great amount of value I can offer you as a client of mine, and to prove a very important thing:
“HOW FAST YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN IS “NOT THE BASIS” TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.”
In fact there are three major points on how to have a continuing intimate relationship with a girl...
And this time I will reveal a few myths about this.
3 MYTHS ABOUT FAST PICK UPS
MYTH #1: "Build a 7+ hours comfort" with the girl before sleeping with her.
As I said, the amount of time you spend with a girl has nothing to do in sleeping with her.
In fact it has almost NOTHING to do with anything you do before you sleep with her. The secret lies in what you do AFTER you sleep with her.
I have got it down to an exact science. A series of actions and behaviors that practically guarantee she will not only see you again, but also be borderline obsessed with you...
Just have a natural behaviors that a person can learn from you in less than five minutes. Nothing fancy, no routines or lines...
Here's the REALITY of this situation.
The reality is some of the hottest and most intelligent women I have dated LOVED the excitement of getting physical really fast.
It's straight out of the movies, and very few guys can pull it off skillfully.
MYTH #2: You need to reassure the woman that you will see her again before sleeping with her.
A lot of guys try this... they imply that the women is "relationship material" or that he definitely wants to see her again.
Man... what a way to kill an intrigue right off the bat...
Guys do this and tend to come on wayyyy to strong. They appear too interested, too needy, to desperate to get a girlfriend.
But at the same time you should NEVER imply that it's a one night stand, or that you're just interested in bed.
This isn't very effective either...
MYTH #3: You have to be great in bed the first time you sleep with her.
Julian, who is a good friend of mine, admitted that he is bad in bed and only lasts for about 3 minutes but converts girls like *CRAZY*.
Point here, he is NOT good in bed (his choice), and STILL gets women so crazy about him, they won't leave him alone.... (it just end up the women sitting there naked, watching him playing Gears of War on his Xbox360)
May be at this point you are thinking...
"THIS IS TOO ADVANCED, I STILL HAVE PROBLEMS PICKING UP AND SLEEPING WITH A WOMAN!"
I know that.
But listen. This is an important information that you're going to need soon.
And let's be honest - when you DO start sleeping with women - wouldn't you rather have the CHOICE to see them again or not?
That's what my point is.
You see, even though guys that can pull these off enjoy not only success with women straight out of a fantasy world and typically get women obsessed with them, with a fast pick-up comes a big problem...
SOMETIMES FAST PICK-UPS DON'T BECOME A RELATIONSHIP.
Sometimes a fast pick-up becomes a one night stand instead of converting it into a relationship.
Well, its fine for those that has that intention.
But a lot of times, you DO want to see the woman again - or possibly start a relationship with her.
Here's something I want you to know - In the past 2 years EVERY girl I have slept with has been under 4 hours.
And EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. wanted to see me again...
So why am I saying this?
I'm saying this NOT to brag. But I'm saying this so that you can realize the great amount of value I can offer you as a client of mine, and to prove a very important thing:
“HOW FAST YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN IS “NOT THE BASIS” TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.”
In fact there are three major points on how to have a continuing intimate relationship with a girl...
And this time I will reveal a few myths about this.
3 MYTHS ABOUT FAST PICK UPS
MYTH #1: "Build a 7+ hours comfort" with the girl before sleeping with her.
As I said, the amount of time you spend with a girl has nothing to do in sleeping with her.
In fact it has almost NOTHING to do with anything you do before you sleep with her. The secret lies in what you do AFTER you sleep with her.
I have got it down to an exact science. A series of actions and behaviors that practically guarantee she will not only see you again, but also be borderline obsessed with you...
Just have a natural behaviors that a person can learn from you in less than five minutes. Nothing fancy, no routines or lines...
Here's the REALITY of this situation.
The reality is some of the hottest and most intelligent women I have dated LOVED the excitement of getting physical really fast.
It's straight out of the movies, and very few guys can pull it off skillfully.
MYTH #2: You need to reassure the woman that you will see her again before sleeping with her.
A lot of guys try this... they imply that the women is "relationship material" or that he definitely wants to see her again.
Man... what a way to kill an intrigue right off the bat...
Guys do this and tend to come on wayyyy to strong. They appear too interested, too needy, to desperate to get a girlfriend.
But at the same time you should NEVER imply that it's a one night stand, or that you're just interested in bed.
This isn't very effective either...
MYTH #3: You have to be great in bed the first time you sleep with her.
Julian, who is a good friend of mine, admitted that he is bad in bed and only lasts for about 3 minutes but converts girls like *CRAZY*.
Point here, he is NOT good in bed (his choice), and STILL gets women so crazy about him, they won't leave him alone.... (it just end up the women sitting there naked, watching him playing Gears of War on his Xbox360)
May be at this point you are thinking...
"THIS IS TOO ADVANCED, I STILL HAVE PROBLEMS PICKING UP AND SLEEPING WITH A WOMAN!"
I know that.
But listen. This is an important information that you're going to need soon.
And let's be honest - when you DO start sleeping with women - wouldn't you rather have the CHOICE to see them again or not?
That's what my point is.